Momma brought her dammit doll to our house for Election Day. I naively didn’t think she would need it. At 92, she’s seen a few elections- and, as she loves to say, “ when you’re this old, you can say and do whatever you want.” She demonstrates that right frequently. As I said, she seen a few elections and has always exercised her right to vote. She’s kind, intelligent, inquisitive, delightfully funny, sharp as a tack, and, I dare to say - she’s right. She could not shake or hit that dammit doll enough to turn the outcome of this election, but I love her for the example she has set for me my entire life. I don’t remember discussions about politics while I was growing up. I don’t even remember talking about equality and fairness. Somehow, growing up in a small mostly conservative, farm community - who I became is just inherent. Nothing will change me, just like I know I can’t change others.
I once read that what people want in life is to know and be known. I often wonder how well we know those who are closest to us, and even, how well we know ourselves. I am not ever sure that people know the things about me that I really want them to - the things I myself appreciate the most. I want my children to understand me. In learning more about me, they may learn more about themselves. These are just a few reasons why I write.
Wednesday, November 6, 2024
Dammit, dammit, dammit
Momma brought her dammit doll to our house for Election Day. I naively didn’t think she would need it. At 92, she’s seen a few elections- and, as she loves to say, “ when you’re this old, you can say and do whatever you want.” She demonstrates that right frequently. As I said, she seen a few elections and has always exercised her right to vote. She’s kind, intelligent, inquisitive, delightfully funny, sharp as a tack, and, I dare to say - she’s right. She could not shake or hit that dammit doll enough to turn the outcome of this election, but I love her for the example she has set for me my entire life. I don’t remember discussions about politics while I was growing up. I don’t even remember talking about equality and fairness. Somehow, growing up in a small mostly conservative, farm community - who I became is just inherent. Nothing will change me, just like I know I can’t change others.
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